she is preparing to be a mother. When she gets married, too many things will flow easily for her.

10. she should be asking you more, if you've eaten and how you're fairing with your job, than her telling you that she's hungry & wants to eat.

11. she shou...

Ask her tailoring questions about the type of friends she keeps. Evil habit corrupts good manners.

If you like her, try to caution her & wait to see if she'll adjust, before you conclude. She may just be ignorant.

8. if she talks flirty with your male fr...

then she's not creating boundaries for you. Same with receiving calls from all sorts of men, including her "uncle".

9. watch how she welcomes children & talks to them. As a matter of fact, if you meet a lady that is helping her sister or aunt or brother, ...

gifts, no matter how little, and she should hardly come to visit you, empty handed. Even if it's fruits, let her buy them and bring to you.

12. she should always be ready & happy to talk about her father & how she looks up to him & honors him.

Any lady t...

she will leave herself.

2. if she's a product of a single mother, ask questions very well before you commit to her.

a) is her mother a single mother as a result of divorce? b) is she a single mother as a result of death of her father? Which makes her mot...

father, is a lady that will not respect you in the long run.

You know why?

If you marry her, she will not listen to his advise if things go wrong in your marriage.

13. watch her social media activities. If she's the type that is always everywhere, and f...

Men, she is not good for you.

All 13 points I've stated above, are both red and green flags.

Depending on your own perspective of things & how you see the individual lady yourself.

There are some you can correct through proper leadership, love and patie...

further.

6. if she comes to your house & leaves the house the way she met it, without showing you why she's a woman, then she's not ready to prove to you that she can be your wife.

Give her a few more opportunities to make amends before you conclude.

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c) is she a single mother out of wedlock?

A & B are potential red flags and if you're not careful, you'll see shege.

3. if you used to date her, and you guys broke up, and she dates someone else, don't go back to her.

4. never tell a lady you just met, ...

marry her. If you do, she will act a script for you & you'll think you've met the LOYL.

5. any lady that begs you for money within few days of meeting her, is not your wife material. May be she's for someone else. But as long as she has showed you that di...